Category Archives: Blog

Find fresh ideas, enriching experiences, inspiring stories and provocative questions here. Comment freely and advance the dialogue leading to new steps toward hospitality and welcome.

Reflecting God and Rethinking Scripture

Rev. Dr. Rodney Sadler appears in the Many Voices Video Campaign, a visibility platform that illuminates the powerful presence of Black lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender Christians and allies within the Black church. Watch and share his video here. Every …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Church leaders, Gay/lesbian, Opening to change, Straight allies, Theology | Comments Off on Reflecting God and Rethinking Scripture

Confessions of a Beauty Queer: Saying Goodbye to Denial

Everyone keeps asking me, “What was it like navigating the pageant world as a queer woman?” I’m honestly not sure what answer anyone is looking for, but the answer I have is simple: It wasn’t like anything. Why? Because I …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Family, Gay/lesbian, Sexual orientation | Comments Off on Confessions of a Beauty Queer: Saying Goodbye to Denial

Why I became honest about my truth as a Black, gay preacher

The Christian faith is about love and justice, but talking about life and light from the dark space of a closed closet would only perpetuate death. My words would be weakened if I weren’t honest about my own truth.

Read More

Posted in Blog, Bullying/violence, Gay/lesbian, Sexual orientation, Share your story, Theology | Comments Off on Why I became honest about my truth as a Black, gay preacher

Is it worth it?

  When you identify as a Christian, and you do it within the context of the Black Church, there is often an assumption that your thinking and reflection follow a very conservative and narrow understanding of who God is, and …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Church leaders, Congregational life, Opening to change | Comments Off on Is it worth it?

What kind of father?

You could probably call my father a social justice minister because he outwardly acknowledged the devastating effects of racism, the gaps between those who had and those who did not, the lack of humanity for people in prison, and the …

Read More

Posted in Bullying/violence, Family, Gay/lesbian, Gender, Share your story, Youth and young adult | Comments Off on What kind of father?

At what cost to these children of God?

  My own journey as a Black, same-gender-loving man brought me, years ago, into a church whose pastor never uttered a condemning word. Outside the pulpit, the pastor was gentle and supportive. Inside the pulpit, he wasn’t gay-hateful, but neither …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Bullying/violence, Children, Youth and young adult | Comments Off on At what cost to these children of God?

A changed heart

The history described, of a written conversation with a friend about United Methodist and Biblical language about same sex unions and marriages is factual. A recent conversation with that friend, has led me to write this “imaginary letter” that he …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Gay/lesbian, Opening to change, Sexual orientation, Straight allies | Comments Off on A changed heart

Talk is Cheap. Truth is Expensive.

Rev. Dr. Thomas Ogletree, a retired UMC elder, retired dean of Yale Divinity School of Divinity and former dean at Drew Theological Seminary, may now be the next clergy to face a church trial as a result of officiating the …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Church leaders, Congregational life, Gay/lesbian | Comments Off on Talk is Cheap. Truth is Expensive.

Breaking the cycle of shame and silence

This conversation was long overdue, and the time had finally come. For decades I had been living silently in my mother’s presence. I had grown tired of feeling like a coward who couldn’t speak his truth. I entered the guest …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Family, Gay/lesbian | Comments Off on Breaking the cycle of shame and silence

Disclosure: Finding one’s voice amidst HIV/AIDS stigma

His 26 year old body was calculating comfortable, sprawled over a disheveled collection of towels and sheets constituting a makeshift mattress, littered with blood-tinged gauze pads, a towel soiled with oral secretions and a crusty suction tube. Upon seeing me …

Read More

Posted in Blog, Family, Gay/lesbian, Hospitality, Straight allies | Comments Off on Disclosure: Finding one’s voice amidst HIV/AIDS stigma